Just sending email and having a hot chat does not make you a sub. If this is just a cyber game to you, be sure your partner feels the same way.1) You might want to read a Dommes profile before addressing her in the room most of them specify what they'd like to be called.. t I suggest defaulting to Ms (Screen name) or Ma'am.that most submissive men are very MUCH Men, they just know what they like,which is to please their Mistress in EVERY Way possible (within their limits) 12) Honesty is VERY important online, if you are married ADMIT it, there are a lot of other married folks online looking for something non-committal Just be open and honest, its the best thing to do .Entering an on line chat room and announcing "On your knees! You might impress the dazzled and the desperate, but real dominants and submissives will laugh at you.but there aren't that a lot of quality submissive males ,if you are a quality sub... Don't do the cyber kneeling, serving coffee, rubbing feet and other silly crap In the main room (leave it for the dungeon), we don't go for that. its nothing to be ashamed of its unfortunate that many forget they were new once, and look down upon newbie's. Please remember when you are experienced that you were new once.
My recommendation, is to say something to the effect of 'With all due respect, Mistress So and So, I am submissive only to the one I've gotten to know and decided to submit to' (or something like that, something gentle) you don't EVER have to submit to anyone except YOUR Mistress but you should always treat a Domme with respect.
9) If you were to walk into a crowded bar where everyone was busy talking, went and sat in a corner and meekly said Hi nobody would notice you the same applies here don't just say Hello all.... Hi Miss Bonnie ( hint, I dislike being called Mistress Bonnie unless I own you) 10) Being worthy. Perhaps you should do whatever it takes to make yourself worthy!
:) 11) Some people seem to think that being a sub male means being a "Wimp" but I can tell you from first hand experience (Oz is no wimp)..
Pass worded rooms are invite ONLY, passwords will only be given out by the room owner when necessary. Note this is a Femdom BDSM chat; Male Dom and Male Switches will not be tolerated.
Drop outs often occur in the chat room through associated connectivity problems and are just a fact of using the internet, they occur to us all. Below are just some ideas and suggestions, you can take or leave them, that's up to you. (Yes, guy subs, I'm talking to YOU) The only people you impress are those who have been on line dominants for less than an hour or the Dommes who got their idea of D/s from internet fantasy fodder.