Around the eighth month of my online dating experience, I gave up on my “sincere” method of meeting girls and intentionally tried to meet as many girls as possible at once.
For the first few weeks, things were similar to my old method and I didn’t see immediate improvements but over time my dating life changed .
Let’s take the example to the odds example to the meets their special someone, guaranteed.
Some may meet on the first date, some may meet on the third but no one ever needs to go beyond a fifth date.
I was discovering which conversations worked better than others and was able to avoid bumps in the conversation all together.
With this approach, I went on one first-date every month, sometimes less.
Once I relaxed, I felt much better about the impressions I was leaving.
Even when things didn’t work out and my date was not interested in seeing me again, at least I knew we just weren’t a match instead of wondering if I had only done “better” would she have liked me? Improved Odds If you believe that you can get along with out there then dating few people could work for you.
All of these dates were very stressful because of the time being I devoted just to get to the date.
First date failure, whether because she wasn’t what I was looking for or the reverse, was very difficult.