If you’re not getting the results you want, there are usually two major reasons.
Either your dating profile sucks, or your photos do.
And since most schools don’t teach how to take a good Tinder photo, you’ll find plenty of examples of good picture ideas for guys you can use for inspiration. Studies have shown that women take about 1/10th of a second to form an impression of someone in a photograph.
If she has a bad impression of you from the start, she's not clicking on your profile or responding to your message.
While it’s true that a group photo does convey those traits, it only helps you if you look great in the photo AND you’re the most attractive one in it.
Most group photos fail on one (or both) of those fronts, and it ends up working against you in the long run because it actually lowers your perceived attractiveness.
When presented with only two options, Tom and Jerry were evenly matched in the looks department.
But when Ariely provided an ugly version of Tom in the photo lineup, suddenly Tom was rated as more attractive.
Tired of feeling frustrated every time you check your online dating sites and apps?Here’s where it gets challenging – she’s forming opinions on just about every aspect of what she sees, including your posture, facial expression, and the clothes you’re wearing.The technical term for this is “thin slicing,” and everyone does it in just about any social situation.Think of it this way – she’s going to imagine herself in the lifestyle the photo conveys. You're visually communicating that you’re interesting, you'll take her to exotic places, and most importantly, that you have the financial means to do it.Here’s a comparison so you can see how signalling works: Which guy do you think she’d rather spend time with?